Nov. 21, 2010

Strong in the Broken Places

Tina Ettinger

2 Corinthians 12: 7b-10


I want you to think back to either when you were a child, or for those of you with children, think back to the last time you or your child brought a toy forth to be fixed. Some fixes are easier than others. Barbie’s head usually pops right back on. Legos just snap back together. Building block towers are re-built. Sometimes, the fixes need a little more work. Super glue is needed to put the wheels back on the truck, the arm or the ear torn off the teddy bear needs to be sewn back on. But when they bring you the dinosaur that is broken in two, you then need to explain to them that sometimes things can’t be fixed. When they get older the repairs get harder. Skinned knees can be fixed with a band- aid and a kiss, but their first broken heart isn’t so easily fixed. As parents all we can do is tell them we love them, but that doesn’t make the hurt go away. No matter how many times they ask us to make it better, we just simply can’t. As adults: lost jobs, failed marriages, financial problems, troubled children all have us asking for it to be fixed. If our parents are still living we might turn to them to help with the problem. We turn to friends, neighbors and strangers to search for answers. And then, when all else fails we turn to God. How many times have we turned to God with these problems crying out “God, fix it.” “God, fix me?”


In our scripture today, Paul asked God to take away his “thorn.” We have no idea what Paul’s thorn was. It has been speculated that Paul’s thorn was epilepsy, eye trouble, malaria, or assassination of his character. We do not know what the “thorn” was other than it bothered Paul and he called out to God to remove it. Instead of removing it, Paul was told “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” For many Christians, that word “weakness” is a bitter pill to swallow. Weakness goes against everything that this country stands for.
 

The Corinthians were not that much different than Americans in the fact that strength and power were valued qualities. “Pulling yourself up by your boot straps” was probably as prized in Corinth as it is in America today. Why would Paul then boast about his weakness? How can God’s power be perfect in weakness?


Physical problems leave us weak and unable to cope, relationship problems bring confusion and stress, battles with addictions make us feel defeated, and financial or job demands damage our self-worth. No one likes the frustration and fear of facing challenges which are too big to handle, but God can use them for our good. Maybe you have never considered inadequacy a blessing. After all, it arouses all sorts of uncomfortable emotions that make us feel useless, insignificant, and weak. But God can turn all the negatives into blessings if we acknowledge our helplessness, depend on His strength, and step into our challenges with confidence in Him. As Earnest Hemingway said, “Life breaks all of us, but some of us are strong in the broken places.” I am not mentally ill enough to believe I am God, nor am I about to propose that I have the answers as to why bad things happen to good people. I would like to explore with you how we can be strong in the broken places.


There is a country song that starts out “I’m down here on my knees because it is the last place left to fall.” How many times have we been on our knees, crying out to God, because we have run out of options to try? How often do we try to “fix it ourselves” before we turn it over to God? How often do we tell ourselves and others “I’ve got this”? when in reality, the only thing we have is heartache and confusion. It’s usually not until we have nowhere else to turn that we turn to God. It is in that time of weakness that we turn to God, that God can start to use us.


To try and help us understand this, I would like to read today’s scripture from The Message.


Because of the extravagance of those revelations, and so I would not get a big head, I was given the gift of a handicap and began appreciating the gift. It was a case of Christ’s strength moving in on my weakness. Now I take limitations in stride, and with good cheer, these limitations that cut me down to size—abuse, accidents, opposition, bad breaks. I just let Christ take over! As so the weaker I get, the stronger I become.
 

Without our limitations, we would not let God take over our lives. We need to appreciate the gifts our limitations. God cannot pour more into us until we are empty. God cannot use us until we admit we are not the ones in control and we need to depend on God. When we allow God to pour God’s self into us, we relieve ourselves from the burden of trying to do God’s will in our own strength. Pride says we are strong enough to be able to do it on our own. But, when we allow ourselves to be filled with God’s power, we are stronger than we could ever be on our own. When we allow ourselves to be filled with God’s power, we allow the Holy Spirit to work in our lives. We become vessels that God can use. We become strong in the broken places.


When we allow God to work in our lives, we provide God an opportunity to demonstrate what He can do. We allow God to use people and situations that humans cannot conceive of being useful to the work of the kingdom. Paul started out persecuting Christians. An act that most humans would not consider useful to the work of the kingdom. But, it was because of the persecutions that Christianity was spread to the ends of the earth. At least the known ends of the earth at that time.


This church has been involved in situations that some would not consider useful work of the kingdom. We have open up our building to people that the rest of society considers useless. The people who use the services of the Spring City Clubhouse, the Donna Lexa Art Center and even the Hand to Hold daycare are considered useless by society because they have mental and physical challenges or even because they are struggling financially. These ministries have been so successful because it isn’t about personal egos or prestige. It is about God using what humans wanted to throw away. It is about God’s power being greater than human imaginings. It is about being strong in the broken places.


Dependency is seen as a weakness, and self-sufficiency is prized. On any given day, if you take a look at the TV listings, you will find all sorts of reality and awards shows. These shows are all about fame, fortune and “getting the prize.” As Christians, we need to follow Paul’s example in 2 Corinthians. Verse 10 states “That is why for Christ’s sake, I delight in weakness, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” God’s strength is greater than any we could accomplish on our own. We need to hold on to that strength and go boldly into the future.


One of my favorite quotes is “When you have come to the edge Of all light that you know And are about to drop off into the darkness Of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or You will be taught to fly.” Many times we come to the edge of the light. We lose our jobs. Our spouse dies. Our child dies. We are in the midst of addiction, and we can’t see the end. It seems the world is against us, and at times it seems as if it would be better if we were not here on this earth. Those are the times we need to hold on to the Faith that there is either solid ground under our feet, or we are going to learn how to fly. Nothing is impossible with our great God. It doesn’t matter what our brokenness is, God is able to use it and make us stronger in that broken place. God can only use that brokenness if we are willing to give it up to God and allow him to use the brokenness. It is in the broken times of our lives that people tend to turn away from God. It is in those times I am reminded of the words of a Casting Crowns song. “I’ll praise you in this storm. And I will lift my hands. For You are who You are no matter where I am. Every tear I’ve cried You hold in your hand. You never left my side and though my heart is torn I will praise you in the storm.”


Praising God in the midst of the storm is one of the most difficult tasks we have as Christians. When we are in the midst of the storm, people’s first tendency is to cry out to God that God has abandoned them, otherwise this brokenness would not have occurred. They don’t realize that God has not abandoned them, God is just waiting for the brokenness to be offered to Him in order for God to make them stronger in the broken places.


When we are able to take a step back and realize Who it really is about, despite the circumstances we find ourselves in, we are able to experience the “Peace that passes all understanding” that is promised to us in the Psalms.
 

The comfort given to us by our gracious and loving God allows us to be able to live with the pain. To be stronger in the broken places. I want to leave you with a story. The story is told of a Renaissance artist who made the world's most prized vases. A foreign visiting apprentice came to observe his method. After laboring for many weeks with one piece of clay--firing it, painting it, baking it--he placed it upon a pedestal for inspection. The apprentice sat in awe at this thing of unspeakable beauty. But it appeared that the artist was not yet finished. In a shocking and dramatic moment, the artist lifted the vase above his head and dashed it against the floor, breaking it into a thousand shards. And then, quietly, he reconnected the pieces by painting them with a paint of pure gold. Each crack reflected invaluable gold. In the end, this magnificent, but imperfect, piece became the most valued piece in the collection. It was the piece’s imperfections that allowed it to be valuable. It is our imperfections that allow us to be valuable to God. Are you willing to let your brokenness shine for the glory of God? AMEN.
 

 

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