July 25, 2010

What You Want, When You Want It

by Rev. Dr. Jim Carlson

Luke 11:1-13


Ask and it will be given to you, Seek and you shall find. These famous words have echoed throughout the centuries giving hope to some while confounding others. I read a news story this week that reminded me of the way many folks interpret that phrase.

There’s an enterprising young man in Glendora CA, who uses a service on a popular website called Craigslist. Craigslist is the reason why no one under the age of 45 puts a classified ad in the newspaper anymore. Craigslist, and other sites like it, is an online classifieds page.

You can buy or sell absolutely anything you want. You can talk about any subject you want to discuss. And other computer users all over the world will interact with you. The best part is that it’s free. You’d have to pay $20 to put an ad in the Freeman, but if you sell your car on Craigslist you’ll have more people see it and it won’t cost you anything.

Back to this young man from Glendora, Steven Ortiz. He spends hours every day looking at a section on Craigslist where people are giving away things for free. People are looking to get rid of all kinds of stuff, and sometimes you can trade something you have for something they have.

Steven spent 5-6 hours a day on Craigslist looking for free stuff. He started with an old cell phone that he didn’t want anymore and traded it for something he thought was more valuable. Then he found something else and traded up. He kept on trading up to items like an Ipad, some dirt bikes, a golf cart and then a Mac Laptop computer.

At one point he found a guy who needed a laptop more than he needed his Ford Bronco. Suddenly Steven found himself driving a Bronco without paying for it. But the coup de grace was when he found someone willing to trade the Bronco for a Porche Boxter. He was the only one at his high school driving their own Porche to class.

All he did was seek and he found. He asked, and a Porche was given to him. I think many of us tend to look at prayer the way that Steven looked at Craigslist. We know there are things in our lives that we need. And we read passages in the Bible like this one where Jesus seems to promise that we will be given whatever we pray for.

So when Jesus teaches his disciples to pray in this passage, lots of Christians say to themselves, “OK, now here’s what I have to do in order to get what I need. God knows what I need, and God will only give me good things. So I just have to pray and really mean it.”

Recently I was speaking to one of my uncles who experienced a real life change when he started attending a large mega church near his home. I see the evidence of change in his life. His way of behavior completely changed and his marriage has seen great improvements. He couldn’t be happier. And I’m happy for him.

When I get together with my relatives, those who are religious like to talk to me and tell me what’s going on in their churches and tell me about the volunteer work they’re doing. But one time this uncle of mine told me that since he started attending church his financial picture has completely changed.

He said he didn’t notice it right away, but he looked back years later and saw that his net worth started climbing during the years when he started going to church. I asked him what attending church has to do with a rising net worth.

He didn’t want to come right out and say it because he knows better than to say something like that to me, but he implied that God had blessed him financially as a result of taking his faith seriously and participating in the life of the church.

There are a lot of folks who understand this passage the way he does. But if God gives us whatever we ask for, every little girl would grow up to be Hannah Montana, every boy would grow up to be a race car driver, the Cubs would win the World Series every year, no one would ever die, and our church would have a multi-billion dollar endowment.

And yet, Jesus tells people not to seek these things. He tells them not to stress about food and clothing and shelter. They don’t need to ask God for those things because God already knows what they need in that regard.

Instead, the focus of their prayer life is their own righteousness and the reign of God on the earth. In Matthew Jesus says, “First seek the kingdom of God and his righteousness. Then all these things will be given to you.” Now that’s a very different way of understanding the concept of prayer.

The concept of prayer comes up in this instance because Jesus’ disciples see him praying. They know that John the Baptist taught his disciples to pray. But to this point in the gospel Jesus hasn’t taught them how to pray. So one of them asks him how they should pray.

It wasn’t as if they didn’t already have some idea how to pray. People in their society prayed all the time. The local synagogue was a place of prayer, as was the temple. In Matthew Jesus wants to show the difference between the way that pious people pray and the way his disciples pray.

But in Luke Jesus makes the point that prayer is a lifestyle, a long-term effort at seeking God’s own righteousness for your life. The folks who are the most successful in prayer are those who are the most persistent.

The prayer he teaches them is a shorter version of the Lord’s Prayer that we say every Sunday morning. The version we say on Sunday morning is more like the Lord’s Prayer in Matthew 6, but it’s not exactly like Matthew’s version either.

The version we use is most like a prayer found in an early church document which gives instruction on how to live the Christian life and administer the functions of a church. I don’t want to go into the technical explanation of why Luke gives us a shorter version of the Lord’s Prayer because no one honestly knows for sure.

But I do want to have you take another look at it to see what Jesus really tells his disciples to pray for when he taught them this prayer. In the beginning prayer expresses the desire that everyone in the world know Israel’s God, and that God would reign over all the earth.

Now we tend to think that God already does reign over the earth, and that God always did. But back in that time people didn’t think God reigned over the earth because they looked around and saw all kinds of really terrible things happening. If God reigned over the earth, those things wouldn’t take place.

Jesus taught that his coming to the world was the beginning of the process of God reigning over the world again, and that when Jesus returned God’s reign over the world would be complete. Until that time Jesus taught his followers to pray that God’s reign keeps coming one small step at a time as they told other people about Jesus.

They ask God to give them the bread they need for the day. But do we understand that bread to be literal loaves of bread or do we understand God feeding us in a spiritual way? In Luke I think it’s the latter.

In this passage Jesus makes the point that just as parents know to give their children what they need for nourishment, God knows that Christians need God’s Spirit in order to live right. So I don’t think they’re asking for something to eat here. I think they’re asking for God to guide them.

Then they ask for God to forgive their sins because they forgive the people who have wronged them. That’s why there’s a difference between the way we pray this prayer and the way some others do.

In Matthew the payer talks about debts and debtors, which are the words we use. But we’re not talking about financial debt here. We’re not asking God to pay off the credit card bills. People believed that when they sinned that they were running up a debt of sin that they owed to God.

And when someone did something wrong to them, that other person became indebted to them. So if they forgave the folks who wronged them, then Jesus taught that God would forgive their debt of sin. And if they didn’t, then God wouldn’t forgive them.

Finally, they ask God not to lead them into a situation where they were tempted to do wrong. On the surface that sounds ridiculous. Why would God lead God’s own people into a situation where they were tempted?

This phrase reflects the belief that whatever happened in history was God’s own doing. If something good happened, God was blessing people. If something bad happened, God was punishing people. And sometimes God tested people to see if they were as loyal as they were supposed to be.

By the time the New Testament was being written that way of looking at the world was being questioned. In James it says that God doesn’t tempt anyone. They’re tempted by their own evil desires. Regardless of what people believed, they always hoped they wouldn’t enter a situation where they were tested.

This is a rather simple, brief prayer. And I want you to notice that in none of these phrases does he teach his disciples to ask for food or possessions or clothes or anything like that. What they’re asking for is God’s own righteousness. That’s what they’re supposed to seek.

Jesus ends this section by reminding his disciples that prayer is not simply about repeating something for the sake of repeating it. He spent so much time in prayer because he believed that persistence was the key to prayer.

One time Emma had a friend over at our house and the time came when her friend’s parents told her to come home. But her friend wasn’t ready to come home. I imagine that what happened next was a fairly frequent occurrence.

Her friend called her parents and began lobbying her them for more time. When simple persuasion didn’t get them to relent, she began the emotional appeal. She told them how sad she was. She said that they were going to making her cry by insisting that she come home.

“Do you want to make your little girl cry?” She told them. This went on for about fifteen minutes, and as she hoped, they finally relented and agreed to let her stay longer. Now it isn’t my business how they conduct themselves, but it reminded me that in many cases persistence has a great effect on the outcome in life.

But if Jesus is teaching his disciples to be persistent, then one of the questions you have to raise is this, “What kind of God would withhold something from a person who prays simply because they haven’t been praying for it long enough? Why would God need to be nagged?”

It’s like a parent whose child says, “Can I have this?” And the parent says, “What is the magic word?” The child says, “Please?” “Pretty please?” replies the parent. “Pretty please with whipped cream on top?” I mean, what are we saying here? Why would God insist that we beg? Does God have a need to be needed? Does God enjoy being begged?

I don’t think so. In fact, I think prayer is more about us than it is about God. I think Jesus teaches his disciples to be persistent because the Christian life requires so much persistence. You can’t become a person with a rich profound faith in God overnight.

It takes time and effort and persistence. You have to want it more than Steven Ortiz wanted that Porche. Think about it: if he was willing to spend 5-6 hours a day on Craigslist (which I don’t recommend) trying to get better stuff for himself, how much effort should we put into seeking God’s own righteousness for our lives, which is much more important than getting stuff?

How much time should we spend asking so that it will be given to us? How many times should we knock on the door, knowing that eventually it will be opened for us? Many of us want to be solid Christians, but what are you willing to put into it?

How badly do you want to know God? How intent are you in understanding what the Bible tells us about God? Churches in the US are filled with people who show up for church, listen to what the pastor says, and if the church is lucky maybe they participate in some program or ministry of the church.

They don’t spend much time thinking about what was said. They don’t question what the pastor says. They aren’t challenged with a sense that there’s so much more to the Christian faith than what they already know. They aren’t interested in other ways of understanding God, even if those other ways might help them come to a deeper faith.

The stopped actually seeking a long time ago. They’re all done knocking on the door. They don’t keep asking because they’re already satisfied with the morsel of Jesus they’ve received, and they don’t want to risk having their whole way of looking at things turned upside down if God ever gives them what they ask for.

Jesus is telling his disciples that it will be really tough for them to follow the savior of the world if they have no desire to continue seeking and knocking and asking. The problem isn’t with God withholding truth from us. It’s with our lack of perseverance in seeking it.

In his classic book, The Meaning of Prayer, the great preacher, Harry Emerson Fosdick, puts it this way: Some things God cannot give to a person until he or she has prepared and proved his or her spirit by persistent prayer. Such praying cleans the house, cleanses the windows, hangs the curtains, sets the table, opens the door, until God says, "Ok! The House is ready. Now the guest may come in."

I believe this is what Jesus is driving at in our Scripture reading for today. When we ask long enough, seek hard enough, knock loud enough, and pray persistent enough, something happens on the inside of us.

The discipline of prayer begins to awaken us to the Holy Spirit inside of us, and our motives and desires begin to change. It is like the persistence of our praying becomes the axe that breaks up the frozen numbness of our souls. Then the power and wisdom of God break in and we begin to be formed by the will of God.

Author Peter Annet once said that those who pray persistently are like sailors who have cast anchor on a rock. As they pull on the anchor, they think they are pulling the rock to themselves, but they are really pulling themselves to the rock.

This is what persistent prayer does. It pulls us closer to The Rock, God Almighty. And as we move closer to God in prayer, we find that we do not get what we want from God. We get something better. We get what we need. We get what God wants.

We find that as we move closer to our Rock, we begin to desire what God desires, so that what we ask for, knock for, and seek after becomes what God so desperately wants to give us. Then the truth of Jesus' words come to life so that what we pray for we truly receive. It is a sacred surprise.
 

 

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